Dr. Sarah Jenkins, PsyD
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Articles by Dr. Sarah Jenkins, PsyD
How to stay consistent with goals
Learning how to stay consistent with goals is the bridge between wishing for success and actually achieving it. Many peo...
How to deal with a manipulative person
Mastering how to deal with a manipulative person is critical for protecting your autonomy and preserving your mental hea...
How to deal with a toxic family member
Learning how to deal with a toxic family member is one of the most painful yet necessary steps to protect your mental he...
How to set boundaries with toxic people
Mastering how to set boundaries with toxic people is critical for preserving your mental health and reclaiming your pers...
How to set healthy boundaries with family
Family is supposed to be the safest place. For many people, it's the place where the worst patterns repeat, where you ca...
How to stop being awkward in social situations
Social awkwardness is one of those feelings that almost everyone carries but few people talk about. The trip home from t...
How to stop being lonely
Loneliness is not the same as being alone, and you can feel it in a crowded room, on a video call with your family, or i...
How to stop racing thoughts at bedtime
Learning how to stop racing thoughts at bedtime is vital for restoring your sleep quality and protecting your mental hea...
How to practice mindfulness daily
Discovering how to practice mindfulness daily can dramatically shift your relationship with stress and improve your over...
How to find purpose when you feel lost
There’s this quiet ache that settles in when you’re not sure what you’re supposed to be doing with your life. It’s not j...
How to stop being hard on yourself
You know that voice—the one that whispers (or sometimes shouts) that you messed up, again. That you should’ve done bette...
How to stop catastrophizing everything
You know that moment when your brain hits the panic button over something tiny? Like, *really* tiny. Maybe you sent a te...
How to deal with FOMO and social comparison
You know that sinking feeling when you’re scrolling through your phone, and suddenly everyone else’s life looks like a h...
How to stop being shy in a relationship
You’re curled up on the couch, heart pounding, trying to decide if now’s the right time to say what’s really on your min...
How to stop being shy at work
You know that moment in a meeting when your heart starts pounding, your palms sweat, and every idea you had just vanishe...
How to be more confident when speaking
You’re standing in front of a room, or maybe just across the table from someone important. Your heart’s pounding, your p...
How to stop worrying about things you cannot control
You know that feeling when your brain just won’t quit? Like a hamster wheel spinning endlessly, replaying every worst-ca...
How to get motivated when you have no energy
You know that heavy feeling—the one where even the smallest task feels like climbing a mountain? Your body’s tired, your...
How to build emotional resilience
You know that moment when life throws something unexpected your way, and suddenly you feel like you’ve been knocked off ...
How to stop being lazy and unmotivated
You know that heavy feeling—the one where even small tasks feel like climbing a mountain? Where your to-do list stares a...
How to move on when you still love someone
You’re sitting on the couch, staring at your phone, their name still glowing on the screen. Your chest feels heavy, like...
How to forgive someone who hurt you deeply
You’re sitting there, heart still raw, replaying the moment they betrayed you like it’s on loop. The anger burns. The sa...
How to stop holding grudges
You know that weight in your chest? The one that tightens every time you think about *them*—what they said, what they di...
How to let go of anger
You know that moment when your chest tightens and your hands clench, and suddenly everything feels like it’s too much? A...
How to love yourself after a breakup
The first morning you wake up and they’re not there, the silence in the room feels like a weight. You reach for your pho...
How to stop people pleasing
You know that sinking feeling when someone asks for a favor and you immediately say yes—even though your gut screams no?...
How to stop being codependent
You know that sinking feeling when you realize you’ve spent the whole day trying to fix someone else’s problems—again? T...
How to stop a panic attack fast
Your chest feels like it’s caving in. Your heart is pounding so hard you swear the person next to you can hear it. The w...
How to calm anxiety at night
You’re lying there, eyes wide open, while your brain replays every embarrassing moment from the last decade. The house i...
How to stop feeling anxious for no reason
You wake up and it’s already there—the tightness in your chest, the buzzing under your skin, like your body’s bracing fo...
How to stop being jealous in a relationship
That tightness in your chest when they laugh with someone else. The way your mind races—*What if they like them more? Wh...
How to stop caring what people think
You know that feeling when you walk into a room and suddenly your skin prickles, like every pair of eyes is dissecting y...
How to stop being so sensitive
That tightness in your chest when someone raises their voice. The way your stomach drops when you think you’ve been judg...
How to motivate yourself when you are depressed
The alarm goes off, and suddenly the day feels like a mountain you can’t climb. Not because you don’t want to—because de...
How to fight depression without medication
Quick honest disclaimer before we start: I'm not going to tell you medication is bad, or that you should 'try harder' in...
How to stop feeling depressed and alone
Here's the worst part of depression and loneliness: they make each other worse. Depression tells you nobody cares. Lonel...
How to get out of a depressive episode fast
If you're in a depressive episode right now, I want to start by saying something most articles won't: this isn't a produ...
How to stop overthinking about the future
Here's the thing about the future: it doesn't actually exist yet. And yet, somehow, it manages to ruin your entire Tuesd...
How to stop overthinking in a relationship
You sent a totally normal text three hours ago. Just a 'haha, yeah sounds good' in response to weekend plans. But now? Y...
How to stop overthinking at night
You know that moment. The house is quiet, the lights are off, and you’re finally horizontal—but your brain? Oh, it’s jus...